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October 2022 Monthly Check In

Here are some prompts and questions to help you reflect and self coach on the previous and upcoming month.

Reflect on September

Things or people you are grateful for from the month of September:

What are ways you made progress towards your goals and projects?

What do you want to let go of?

What do you want to remember from last month?

What lessons did you learn?

Plan for October

What you saying no to this month?

What are you saying yes to this month?

What are you excited about this month? What are you hoping for?

What is on your mind as you head into this next month? What might be stressing you out?

What is your to do list for this month? What do you hope to get done? What do you want to make progress on?

 

Here are some prompts and questions to help you reflect and self coach on the previous and upcoming month.

 

Reflect on September

Things or people you are grateful for from the month of September:

What are ways you made progress towards your goals and projects?

What do you want to let go of?

What do you want to remember from last month?

What lessons did you learn?

Plan for October

What you saying no to this month?

What are you saying yes to this month?

What are you excited about this month? 

What are you hoping for?

What is on your mind as you head into this next month?  What  might be stressing you out?

What is your to do list for this month?

What do you hope to get done?

What do you want to make progress on?


Self Care Practices

 

This is a self portrait at the secret dock. Image of darby reflected in the water.

 

What do you do to pause, regroup, and reflect?

 

An orange flower on a flowering tree in my neighborhood.

 

What are you looking forward to in Fall?

 
 

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Weekly Check In 4/18/2022

Here are some powerful questions for self coaching that can help you plan and reflect on the week ahead:
What went well last week? What didn’t go as planned?

What are the top 3 things/priorities that will get your time energy and attention?

What do you need to create the most time for this week?

Where are you going to need discipline this week?

What is the dominant emotion you are feeling as you head into the week. Is it one you want to have? If not, do you want to make any changes to that?

What do you want your relationship to technology to look like?

What is your ration of solitude to social time this week?

Here are some powerful questions for self coaching that can help you plan and reflect on the week ahead:

What went well last week? What didn’t go as planned?

Top 3 priorities this week (to give your time, energy and attention to)

What do you want to say yes to this week?

What do you want to say no to?

What do you want more of?

What do you want less of?

What is the busiest part of your week? What it the quietest part of your week? How does that affect your planning?

What will set you up for success?

What bright spots you are looking forward to?

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April 2022 Monthly Check In

Here are some prompts and questions to help you reflect and self coach on the previous and upcoming month.

Reflections on the past month

Who or what are you grateful for from the month of March?

What are the goals or projects where you are seeing progress (no matter how small that progress is, it still counts)?

What didn’t go quite as planned that you are going to let go?

What are your favorite memories from the month of march? What do you want to remember from this past month?

What are the lessons you are taking away from March that you want to take with you into this coming month?

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Reflections on the month ahead

What are you saying yes to and what are you saying no to in the Month of April?

What are you stressed about in the month of April? What might cause anxiety? Do a little brain dump to get them out o your mind.

What are you excited about, or what is drawing you forward in this next month?

What are your to do items for April? What are the things you want to get done and move forward?

Is there a word or a phrase, or maybe a mantra to pull you into the month?

What do you need to know to move forward and take action?

Here are some prompts and questions to help you reflect and self coach on the previous and upcoming month.


Reflections on the past month


Who or what are you grateful for from the month of March?

What are the goals or projects where you are seeing progress (no matter how small that progress is, it still counts)?


What didn’t go quite as planned that you are going to let go?


What are your favorite memories from the month of march?  What do you want to remember from this past month?


What are the lessons you are taking away from March that you want to take with you into this coming month?



Reflections on the month ahead


What are you saying yes to and what are you saying no to in the Month of April?


What are you stressed about in the month of April?  What might cause anxiety?  Do a little brain dump to get them out o your mind.


What are you excited about, or what is drawing you forward in this next month?


What are your to do items for April? What are the things you want to get done and move forward?


Is there a word or a phrase, or maybe a mantra to pull you into the month?


What do you need to know to move forward and take action?

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